So, despite all the amazing and wonderful independence of late, it's been a rough haul the last few months with a lot of negative behaviors and testing the limits and trying to find some security by regressing (and I'm not just talking about them, truth be told!) It has not brought out the best in any of us, and I've let a lot of positives go by the wayside as I've tried to find some new routines.
Jack came into our room this morning with a great big smile and said "Good Morning...Sunshines" and gave me his most adorable and loving smile. I got all weepy when I realized how long it had been since I greeted them this way - I used to go in to wake them every morning with that phrase....now that they get up on their own, I've gotten lazy or out of the routine or whateve. Well, starting our day that way seemed to help us all have a good day today. So, we're trying to get back to some of our better habits and let go of some of the negatives.
Here's Jack's attempt to get himself together during a fit, mostly from being tired but a little just because he's 4 and wants his way ;-) I was going to post it as The World Could Use A Cowboy but got lazy.....

If you are struggling with your kids' behavior, I can say this worked really well that day - I took a picture of him ready to melt down then we worked to get him to 'cowboy up' and talked about which one would be more fun to be with, which one might get what he really wants, which one might be the better friend, etc. It worked for the moment and a few times since - maybe you can have some success with it, too!
Happy weekend!
Oops, I realized this is NOT the song I thought it was! I think I meant URMySunshine or Sarah Brightman's GM Starshine, maybe?